Author: Head Experimenter
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To have Expectations or to Not? That ’tis the question.
You should have expectations, and the closer the friend, the more expectations you should have of them. Expectations by any other word are still expectations. Desires, wants, needs, standards = expectations. Or, at the very least, hopes. Hopes just come less attached. Let me put it this way: would you like it if your friends…
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Life Frameworks and Advice (i guess)
Inspired by Tim Ferris, Kevin Kelly, Nabeel Qureshi, and others, here is my list of collected wisdoms and thoughts. I tried to attribute the ideas when I could remember but some of these have been so long with me now I’m not sure if they’re actual quotes or amalgamations that have formed in my head…
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How to Beat Lazy You
Ah goals. They usually only come about around New Year’s or when something has caused us enough pain. But even though we set the goal why does it feel like we lack the willpower and discipline to do anything about it? So what’s up with this lack of discipline thing anyway? Why does it seem…
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The Genuine-Effort Scale
🪄Keystones: Through this article I want you to become aware of what happens to your self-perceived genuineness or authenticity as you develop social skills so that you can endure the uncanny valley of behavior change. Then, I’ll suggest some things that can limit your growth and that of those you influence. “Well I Just…
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How to Give A Terrible Compliment
A creepy comment makes the other person uncomfortable because of where or what it draws attention to and what it implies. Or because they find you especially unattractive and don’t want your attention. A comment of kiss-uppery is all about the other person and may have other ulterior motives A genuine, non-creepy compliment is specific…
